7 Great Solo Masturbation Tips for Men
Masturbation is fun, masturbation is healthy but are you doing it right?
Now, that’s a silly question. Everyone with a penis over the age of 12 has at least some idea about what brings pleasure. But male masturbation can be a lot more than what you’re doing right now.
Obviously, a quickie is a good way to get the job done and relieve some tension in five minutes or less. If you have more time to fantasize about big tits and explore sexual fantasies, however, you should definitely consider switching things up a bit.
The best male masturbation techniques are a lot more diversified than you’ve ever imagined them to be. So, let’s not waste more time. Here’s your A to Z masturbation guide that will teach you the basics and a few more advanced ways to give yourself pleasure.
Masturbation Basics: Solo Pleasure 101
Most dudes know what it’s all about – you put on some porn, you check out some picks of busty blondes and brunettes and you’re ready to go.
Obviously, most guys would focus on their penis in such moments. A few sufficiently hard and intense strokes will be enough to lead to orgasm every single time.
Eventually, however, this routine is going to get boring.
The process will become nearly automatic and mechanical. It will center solely on the expected release and not the experiences during the masturbation itself. And this shouldn’t be the case. Touching oneself and experimenting with different kinds of stimulation is incredibly rewarding for both men and women.
Not only that, trying out new styles of masturbation can help you become better in bed, last longer and understand the way your body works. All of this knowledge will increase your ability to please a partner sexually and to also have a great time yourself.
Once you’ve mastered the basics, it’s time to direct your attention towards a few ways to make your self-love routine more pleasurable and intense. Luckily, both of these goals can be easy to accomplish if you know what you’re doing.
Cool Solo Masturbation Ideas to Try Right Now
We’ll give you a number of ideas, some of them suitable for beginners and some which you can incorporate in your routine as you go.
Something as simple as switching up the stroking rhythm can make you feel like you’ve never masturbated before. For a few of the other techniques, you will need a few props and supplies. Luckily, these can be acquired online and you wouldn’t have to spend a large amount on giving yourself the ultimate type of pleasure.
Take It Very, Very Slow
You know exactly what stroking speed and intensity will get the job done.
That’s why, the next time you decide to have a bit of solo fun, take it very slow.
Slow stroking will build up the anticipation, especially if you’re watching busty girls on your computer screen or you’re exploring a fantasy/fetish in any other way. Eventually, you’ll start feeling as if you’re ready to erupt (and that’s precisely what will happen in a little while).
Changing the speed will give you a chance to focus much more on the experience and the sensations. You’ll be in charge of your arousal, speeding things up or taking them slow depending on your preferences.
The general idea here is to try something that you wouldn’t normally do. The sheer novelty of the experience will make the solo session unforgettable.
Edging
Another important technique every guy should be acquainted with is edging.
Edging is really good because not only does it contribute to more powerful orgasms, it helps you last longer when you’re in bed with a partner.
Also known as the start and stop method, edging is very simple and very effective.
In essence, you stimulate yourself almost to the point of orgasm. When you’re nearly there, you stop. Once your erection has subsided a little bit, you get started once again. Alternatively, you can squeeze the head of your penis when you feel an orgasm approaching. That will slow things down a bit.
After you repeat edging a few times, you’ll have a mind-blowing orgasm due to the buildup.
The exact same thing can be done when you’re having sex with someone else. When you feel that you’re close to coming, stop having sex or change the position to one that offers less stimulation (usually, positions that don’t allow for deep penetration will help you control your excitement better). This way, you’ll last long enough to give them an orgasm and to enjoy one yourself in the aftermath.
Try a Cock Ring
Now we’re getting into the realm of sex toys. They can be absolutely thrilling when you’re having solo fun and some of the simplest toys will be the best ones.
A cock ring is an example of one such item.
Cock rings actually started out as an opportunity to treat common sexual dysfunctions in men. When put around the base of the penis, they trap blood inside and keep it from getting out. If blood is trapped inside the penis, it will remain harder for a longer period of time.
The cock ring, however, can also change the things you feel when masturbating.
According to some theories, a cock ring makes it possible for guys to experience multiple orgasms. In addition, some of the cock rings on the market vibrate. That will add a new layer of pleasure to your masturbatory experience.
Just a word of warning – a cock ring shouldn’t be kept on the penis for more than 30 minutes. Obviously, that’s quite a lot of time you can put to good use.
Have Fun with a Pocket Pussy
A pocket pussy is a really fun toy that will make your solo adventure feel completely different.
You can easily find a cheap pussy masturbator to experiment with before investing in more expensive pocket pussies.
In essence, a pocket pussy is created to resemble the feel of vaginal penetration. These masturbators have varying internal textures that give you a specific experience with each one. Some have even been fashioned after the fine lady bits of adult actresses.
A pocket pussy is small and you can take in anywhere you go. It’s also very easy to use, once you get the hang of it.
The only thing you should always remember is to clean your pocket pussy after use. Otherwise, it will harbor bacteria and it will become dangerous to utilize the next time around.
Massage Your Prostate
This is a somewhat more advanced masturbation technique that many guys feel uncomfortable with due to clichés and societal stereotypes.
A prostate massage is one of the easiest ways to give yourself a mind-blowing orgasm, plus it’s extra good for your health.
The prostate is a small gland found inside your body. It plays a very important role in regulating sexual function. Unfortunately, many guys experience issues as prostate enlargement as they age.
You can massage your prostate in two ways.
The first way involves your perineum – the area between your balls and your anus. Pressing a vibrating toy there while masturbating will have you screaming with pleasure for sure.
Alternatively, you can stimulate your prostate through the backdoor (and no, that doesn’t make you gay).
The sex toy market has a good selection of prostate massagers for beginners and more advanced users. All you have to do is slap a liberal amount of lube on and have fun.
Most men who have tired prostate massages swear by them. You should definitely try the technique at least once to determine if it’s your cup of tea.
Try Some Ball Stretching
Here’s another technique you probably haven’t heard of.
Ball stretching originated as a fetish but now, it’s being more widely practiced.
The premise here is very simple – stretching your balls to hang lower than usual and away from your body is supposed to intensify your orgasms. This is another technique that has many fans who swear by its effectiveness.
You can use weights (most sex toy stores) have such items for the purpose or you can pull on your balls while masturbating. Be gentle at first and if you like it, use a bit more pressure each time.
Explore Your Entire Body!
Now, we all know that most masturbation techniques and ideas focus on your penis (with some potentially including the balls).
Obviously, that’s your pleasure center.
But it’s not the only one your body is endowed with.
Teasing yourself and touching other body parts may seem silly at first. But just like slowing things down, exploring other erogenous zones can build up the anticipation and the pleasure.
Touch your nipples, your neck, your butt – any part of your body that you like getting touched during sex. Eventually, you’ll get a pretty good idea of what feels awesome and you’ll incorporate it in your regular masturbation sessions.
Solo fun doesn’t have to be boring. There are so many techniques to try out, so many toys to explore. Use the list above to start with a few and you can continue diversifying your solo sessions further as you go.
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